Zhigalo what does it mean. Who needs gigolos and gigolos? Who are these women: fools or wise ones? Hides joint photos
This representative of the male part of the Earth's population has so many masks and biting national names, however, his essence is the same everywhere: he is a bright handsome man who provides sexual services to a rich woman and lives at her expense. Usually, in a relationship between two, social roles in a couple are distributed by mutual agreement, however, there are situations when a gigolo disguises itself as a sincere and ardent lover, and at the same time begins to regularly use the financial assets of his passion.
Gigolo portrait
In the modern world, the gigolo has received a negative connotation from others, since the couple's relationship is based on the provision of intimate services for money. This is a kind of male prostitution. Initially, a gigolo (ital. gigolo) in Italy was called a paid partner for dancing in the dance floor or night restaurants. Over time, due to the frequency of the facts of the development of joint dance entertainment into the provision of sexual services to wealthy clients, the word "gigolo" has become a household name for call men.
Such a representative has many names - synonyms found in different world cultures: in Italy they can also be called Casanova, in England - Lavelas, in Russia - a womanizer and red tape, in France - Alphonse and Celadon, in Spain - Don Juan, in The United States is a playboy, although not all of these men at one time bestowed bodily love on their beloved for money.
As a rule, a gigolo is a kind of charismatic handsome man, who is fluent in the art of seduction, who knows how to masterfully please ladies. In world cinema, such sugary boys get the roles of heroes-lovers. They have a bright appearance, congruent body language, real Apollos of the love front. They are well aware of female psychology, their weaknesses and use this to extract profit.
Escort on call
Escort services, that is, escorting rich people at official receptions or on trips, are provided not only by girls. Today, more and more wealthy ladies allow themselves such a luxury, calling handsome men with refined manners for expensive services. This is a lucrative type of business when a handsome young man is called in to decorate some event, event or tough negotiations, as a distracting "exhibit".
Usually the provision of additional, sexual services is negotiated separately and is not included in the main price of the escort. However, in practice, more often than not, a young man on call eventually becomes the notorious gigolo, the keeper of an aging lady. This is not a fashion trend of our time, sex has been bought, bought, and will be bought in all ages and times. The spiritual component of such a relationship looks pitiful, and most often these joys sooner or later end quite tragically.
What to do if a gigolo lives nearby?
It is too late to talk about prevention, because a man who was once allowed to receive payment for love is unlikely to want to take responsibility for the well-being of his partner. There can be no talk of a pure and lofty feeling, and this is the first thing that is important to admit frankly to yourself. The next step can only be parting or signing a clear and specific agreement on the mutual obligations of the parties. Cynically, harshly and soullessly, however, if both sides are satisfied with such a relationship, this is a matter of two. You need to be prepared for the fact that sooner or later a male prostitute will find himself a richer mistress, no matter how sweetly they feed him in this house. Such is his nature!
It is interesting
The work of the gigolo is described in detail in the book by Eduard Limonov (Savenko) "The Executioner" (1986), this work brought fame to the avant-garde writer as a hard prose writer. The protagonist of the novel, a Polish immigrant, having arrived in America in the 1970s, becomes a professional gigolo. The executioner is his own assessment of the actions to please rich ladies. In the characteristic Limonovian manner, the book without cuts, with all the violations of verbal ethics and norms of the language, gives a cruel story about the terrible loneliness and deep mental crisis of the protagonist. A kind of Maupassant's "Dear Friend", who, instead of luxurious manners, has a vibrator and a whip in his hands.
A French scandal in the family of the richest woman in the country, Liliane Bettencourt, owner of the L "Oreal" cosmetics empire, and her lover Francois Marie-Bagnier is brewing at the suggestion of the billionaire's daughter. that he takes advantage of her 87-year-old mother's illness, begging for luxurious gifts.Today, Francois lives in a chic mansion in the elite quarter of Paris, has a fortune of three billion and a will from Madame Bettencourt for a priceless collection of paintings by Picasso, Léger and Matisse. to the court with a demand to forbid the mother to dispose of her fortune until a medical examination of sanity, which Lillian categorically refused.
Zhanna Pyatirikova
Gigolo - a profession not too noticeable, but, as it turns out, very popular. Ladies need a gentleman, and a gentleman needs an expensive gift. But at the end of a career, every gigolo dreams of becoming a gigolo.
Do not confuse a gigolo with a gigolo and a casanova, - explains Alexander Kichaev, an elite psychologist for elite gigolos and their elite clients.
In general, a prostitute, - I insert.
- Do not confuse! Alexander intervenes. - A prostitute is bought exclusively for sex and at a fixed price. And the gigolo has no fee for sex services.
- And what about the gifts?
- Gigolo really accepts expensive gifts from his clients, and that's how he lives. But! He never asks for gratitude in plain text.
- In what way does he demand it?
- Gigolo is fluent in the art of tactful hints. For example, wanting to receive an expensive watch as a gift, he is late for a date, and then ardently apologizes: “I was late because my watch broke and I don’t have others ...”
- But such a trick is easy to miscalculate! The hint is more than transparent!
- That's the way it should be. She understands what he is hinting at, and he knows that she understands it.
- Why then all these games?
- That's exactly what games are! The game creates the illusion of pure, untouched by money relationships. Because the relationship "money - love - money" is not the one that a woman aspires to. She prefers to believe that the man is next to her not for self-interest, so she enthusiastically joins the game. And in no case should the gigolo destroy this illusion.
And where is she - the ultimate goal of the gigolo?
- The last stage of his career is his own business, donated by a rich client, or marriage to her.
- Are you saying that the ultimate goal of a gigolo is to be reborn as a gigolo?
- At the end of a career, every gigolo dreams of becoming a gigolo.
Difficulties of the profession
Most often, a sultry macho becomes a role model. But romantic heroes in our realities are not in demand. The heart in armor is the main attribute of his profession. He is a gigolo, to conquer and seduce is his job.
Clothing is his uniform. He is obliged to follow the latest fashion trends and know the names of its leading houses by heart. Only in these brands he is prescribed to dress. There is a saying in the gigolo world: “The more expensive the package, the more they will pay for you.” A woman should not be ashamed to appear with him in society.
Gigolo is well versed in the brands of cars and equipment and can estimate the price of a car, a mobile phone or a client’s watch by eye. This helps him accurately determine her social status and eliminates the risk of contacting an insolvent client. He learns about the latest in the auto industry and technology from expensive glossy magazines. In addition, the gigolo is always up to date with the latest cultural news. He actively watches new films, reads books that are fashionable this season, and visits exhibitions.
Elite Sergey
From Alexander's office, I went to Tverskaya, where in an Italian restaurant I had an appointment with one of the psychologist's clients, the elite gigolo Sergey.
On the way, I set myself up in a sympathetic mood, vividly imagining the horrors that pushed Sergei to such an undignified profession. He had nothing to eat, I decided - and dismissed this option as not compassionate enough. His mother fell ill and she needed an expensive operation ... No, in fact, everything was much worse: his father left for another, his mother fell ill and died, and Sergey had two, no, better three brothers and sisters in his arms. Having become a gigolo, he sacrificed himself - he refused education, personal aspirations ... Having settled on the last option, I entered the restaurant ready to show understanding and sympathy. None of the patrons scattered around the tables looked like a gigolo. I began to call Sergei on the mobile phone. “I am sitting behind a column. Go there. I see you," the receiver answered. “Disguised,” I thought, and went behind the column.
Sergei was just from the barbershop. With manicured fingers, he played with an obviously expensive, but not identified by me, model of the phone.
Did you have dinner? Sergey smiled sweetly.
In response to his smile, I ordered a shrimp linguine. Sergey repeated my order, adding espresso coffee and ice cream to it. Putting the recorder on the table, I got ready to “pull snot” from Sergei’s biography.
So, how did I become a gigolo ... - Sergey leaned back in his chair. - It seems that then I had already graduated from the institute ...
- How did you graduate from the institute? I jumped up in my chair. - You didn't have money for education!
- Who told you that? Sergei was surprised. - I graduated from the Pedagogical Institute in Rostov with a degree in psychology.
Kichaev's words came to mind: “Most gigolos have a profession. As a rule, they work as psychologists, fitness instructors, extreme driving or equestrian sports instructors, ballroom dance teachers. Being unemployed harms the gigolo in the eyes of society. In addition, the woman herself prefers not to become the only source of income for the gigolo: having a profession creates the illusion of a relationship based not on money, but on mutual attraction.
So, you are a psychologist… Why did you choose this specialty? Did you follow in the footsteps of your parents? - so I wanted to bring the conversation to a sick mother and a traitor father.
- Not really, - Sergey smiled again and looked into my eyes affectionately. - My parents are doctors: father is a surgeon, mother is a speech therapist.
What about your brothers and sisters?
- I am the only child in the family ... Once I watched a movie in the cinema - I don’t remember what it was called, but the main character is a gigolo. It was somewhere at the end of the fifth year ... In general, I was already thinking about my future then. Thought what to do? Psychology is not a profitable business, and I was looking for my niche. After watching the film, I realized - this is it, my vocation.
Because she knew what I was capable of in bed, - Sergey grinned, pleased with himself, and looked at me promisingly. - The second lady recommended me to the third, and gradually I began to acquire connections. In the end, one of the rich clients lured me to Moscow with her and organized a job in a prosperous company ...
Do you keep in touch with your former clients?
- Only those who are useful. For example, I did not have enough money to buy a country house - I called a former client and asked for a couple of tens of thousands of dollars in a loan.
- And she did?
- Of course. This amount is a trifle for her.
- But your relationship is in the past. She already paid for them, right?
- No not like this. I served her for two months and did not take anything in return. But she knew that someday I would call her and voice my request.
- Of course, you did not return the debt, did you?
- Of course...
So, it wasn’t need that made you… choose such a… original profession?
- Need? I never felt the need! What do you find shameful in my profession? Being a gigolo is hard work. I honestly earn money.
- Sorry, but it seemed to me that the gigolo was on the content ...
- Maintained? - Sergei leaned forward, but quickly pulled himself together and smiled broadly again. - Do you know how much I have to plow for this content? Do you think satisfying older women is the height of pleasure?
- How do you satisfy them? Accompany in society or provide sexual services?
I do both.
- How often do you have to deal with "other"?
- Three or four times a week.
So you said that sex with older women does not bring you pleasure ... How do you manage to get excited and demonstrate everything that you are capable of in bed? Maybe you close your eyes and imagine yourself with… Angelina Jolie or… your girlfriend?
- What nonsense! I have no favorite girls! - an aggressive note was heard in the gigolo's voice, but he quickly regained his composure and almost purred.
Are you aware of the existence of Viagra? - asked Sergei.
- Aren't you afraid to use it so often - three or four times a week? Its effect on health is not yet fully understood ...
Our service is both dangerous and difficult. Once I fall short of the mark once, the news of my failure will spread throughout the community in which I move. I will be without clients. One failure, and that's it - the reputation is ruined.
Did your clients fall in love with you?
- It was the case. Often they did not want to let go, they offered to live together. I remember there was one such lady... She exhausted me with her calls and harassment. She assured me that she could not live without me, cut her veins. For a whole month I patiently listened to it, and then sent it.
You somehow angrily react to the word "love" and the phrase "beloved girl." You don't have a girlfriend?
- Love is a fairy tale for ninth graders.
- What are you?! Never loved?
- Women interest me only as an opportunity to gain financial benefits ...
If a woman wants to be satisfied, she must pay for it, - Sergey smiled at me again.
- Sergey, why are you constantly smiling at me? I annoy you with my questions.
"I smile at you because I like you," he smiled again. With one mouth. And Kichaev’s voice sounded in his ears again: “A high-class gigolo is distinguished by the ability to master facial expressions and body language. Knowledge of body language allows him to read the client's reaction to his actions and words, even from the slight movement of her facial muscles.
Can you like someone?
- Why not? I prefer young women.
- Would you agree to serve a young woman for free?
- I didn't think about it.
“Would you agree to support this young woman?”
Why should I keep her?
- And she will satisfy you ...
- Yes, I can be satisfied without it, I’ll also get money for it! And you know what?! I don’t see sales women, - Sergey rapped out every syllable of the last phrase.
And who are you yourself? I freaked out.
Sergei flared his nostrils. We glared at each other over our plates of linguine. A titanic effort - and Sergey pulled himself together: a friendly expression froze on his face like a mask.
Do you have more questions? Time is running out…
- Yes! Judging by your hair and manicure, you just got out of the barbershop. How often do you visit there?
- Two times a week.
- Wow!
- And in your opinion, I should walk around with gnawed nails and an explosion on my head, - Sergey kept a meaningful look at my disheveled hair and somehow trimmed nails. - I think if a woman goes to meet a man, she should at least put her head in order ... Don't you think? he smiled slyly.
I choked with rage. Wow interview - in front of me sits a burnt cynic, a complete egoist and teaches me good manners!
You see, if I went to a meeting with a man, I would take the trouble to put my head and nails in order ... - I emphasized the word "man".
Sergei turned purple.
It's all? he asked haughtily.
- I would also like to know if you love anyone?
- Of course. I love myself.
- Will you ever have children?
- I have son. He was born back in Rostov, when I was in my second year at the institute.
- What about his mother?
- We broke up. Relationships have outlived their usefulness.
- How often do you see your son?
- I'm sending him money.
Do you want him to become a gigolo someday too?
- Your problem is that you can not understand in any way: I do not consider the gigolo a shameful profession. I am proud of my work, it brings me a lot of money. Do you know how much my shoes cost? Two thousand dollars. Did you see the black jeep at the entrance? He's mine. Could I have earned all this, as you put it, by honest work? Until old age, I would sit as a psychologist in some scruffy Rostov school or clinic. Women buy us. They know we're gigolos and they're fine with that! Shame and disgrace - I am on the content of a woman! But why does society not condemn those women who are supported by men?
Because a man is a representative of the stronger sex. Because he is a provider and protector. And so it has been throughout human history.
- Now you will tell me that a man should pay for a lady ...
- Do you pay for your ladies - at least for averting your eyes?
- Never! She invited me, she pays. And if I come, let them take the trouble to take me back.
- Do you dream of anything?
- Yes, I dream of getting my own business as a gift.
Perhaps that's all, - I turned off the recorder and got up from the table. - Thanks for the interesting conversation.
“Wait,” Sergey called out to me. - Aren't you going to pay for dinner?
"No," I smiled sweetly.
What, you don't have any money? the gigolo bristled.
Yes, but I won't pay. I want you to feel like a man at least once in your life.
According to "Expert"
And again we tell you about people of ambiguous professions. This time we decided to interview a real gigolo. Let's dispel the myth right away: no, this job is not about pleasing beautiful single women. This work also has little in common with the film, the title of which we put in the title (by the way, we recommend it - David Bowie and Marlene Dietrich are there). Here, as in general in this area, everything is rather gray and dirty, and sometimes harsh and disgusting.
This text is not intended for readers under the age of 18.
Let's start with the most banal question. How did you get started doing this?
- Like any 18-year-old kid, I wanted sex. Is always. More sex for the god of sex, as they say. I had gigabytes of porn and a big pack of napkins on my desk. The problem is that you have to know how to have sex, you have to look for someone to do it with and where to do it. This is not to mention the courtship ritual and all sorts of ritual inclinations of the intended partner to this occupation. For a teenager, these are still problems. The hopelessness of the search prompted me to a sudden thought when I wanted to call a prostitute.
And then it dawned on me - why am I worse? I mean, why can't I switch places and become the object of the search myself. I stood in front of the mirror and tried to adequately evaluate myself. The carcass is in order (thanks to the basement rocking chair in the yard), they said to my face that I was cute (sometimes not only my mother), I know how to communicate. The thought of "shameful stigma", "occupation unworthy of a man" and other things did not bother me much, I wanted sex and money.
(Still from the film “Beautiful Gigolo, Poor Gigolo”)
A few days later I went to the first order. A couple of hours later I left the hotel entrance completely empty and with a couple of thousand in my pocket.
It was a strange feeling. No, I didn't feel dirty, I didn't sink in my eyes. I got what I wanted. I fucked, I earned. I didn't have a feeling of satisfaction, but there was a feeling of relief that the problem was solved.
If you trade in the body, being a prostitute or a model, then you probably know that there are different types and different clientele. Did you manage to find your niche?
- At one time, when I just started this thorny path, it was difficult for me to determine my potential. Let's put it this way: I'm cute, but not cute enough for gay passives and not brutal enough for women. Women order me a little. More often I play the role of an asset with a bias towards the Master. To be honest, I don't care.
That is, my main contingent is the so-called “lower” men who want to be whipped, strap-on fucked or something else. I have a rich arsenal of all kinds of toys, and I’m going on trips like a caricature with a black suitcase, which contains the necessary BDSM paraphernalia and more.
I place veiled ads about myself, beautiful, on all kinds of dating sites and sites with a bias in the subject. Usually I check the box “I am looking for a sponsor” or “with material support”.
What is most often asked for? What kind of clients are there?
- Often asked to be humiliated. And by that they mean absolutely everything.
I had a regular client who made me walk all day before leaving for him in berets, so that later, purring with pleasure, lick my sweaty feet.
Somehow my grandfather met me, he looked like a fifty kopeck. He offered me to be his Master. He told a sad story about how he served the previous Master for 15 years, and he suddenly died. He shared that there was no greater joy in his life than to sit at the feet of his Master and watch him pour his own urine into a champagne glass for a servant. In general, for some reason I refused.
(Still from the film "Man on Call")
There was also a classically large influential uncle who allowed himself to be put on a leash and put on rabbit ears and a mask. He also had a ponytail-plug, such a "pump". Considering that this rabbit weighed 120 kilograms and had a huge hairy belly, the spectacle was tragicomic. I was funny. But it was impossible to laugh, but it was necessary to drive the rabbit around the apartment with a stack with cursing and beat the ass with the same stack. It took the man 30-40 minutes. Then he sat down on the floor and told where he messed up, and I slapped him in the face, called him a loser. Such a confession lasted another 30 minutes. Then he went to the shower, changed into his gray suit with a spark, called the guards and left.
Once, when I got used to him a little and his final confession was limited to 10 minutes, I asked him, “San, why do you need all this?”. He answered simply:
- You see, in my life I slaughter everyone and drive with cursing, and sometimes you want me too, but you can’t, the boys won’t understand.
But what do you do if there are technical overlays? It is usually possible to say that you are tired, but here it seems like the service was not rendered.
“In general, everything is fine with my potency. But sometimes, when in front of you is not a pretty beauty, but a fat, hairy man, it’s not that you don’t get excited, but you think about how to suppress the urge to vomit.
So sometimes you have to use all sorts of Viagra and substitutes from a sex shop. I'm still an aesthete.
(Still from the movie Midnight Cowboy)
How long have you been doing this? How long do you plan to continue your career?
- As I said, from the age of 18. Now I am 25, and I understand that even with regular visits to a rocking chair and a beautician, in five to ten years I risk being on the sidelines of the profession, unable to compete with younger individuals.
At first I had euphoria, and I thought and wanted to do this always.
You see, when you're a young kid and you can get a week's wages in an hour, you're a little bit blown away at first. It seems that you are immortal and always will be. But this is before the first hard order.
Now I entered the second tower (I scored at the first one at the time), I plan to finish it and still look for a job in my specialty, having saved myself a small financial pillow. Prostitution is not a job that I would like to do all my life, as I understand it now.
There was also the idea of finding a sponsor for myself, but I understand that I am not ready to serve some person all my life who is just a little richer than me. And yes, it's still a road to nowhere. Sooner or later you will be replaced young and beautiful, and you will be left without education and work, and in general not accustomed to work. As I said, it is difficult to work an eight-hour day when you are used to getting this amount of money in half an hour. But I don't think I have a choice.
(Still from the film "Flesh" 1968)
You mentioned hard orders. If possible, tell me what you mean.
“My name isn’t mentioned, is it?” *laughs*
There are a lot of crazy people in this business. Often you are bought by rich comrades. And they have a special deviation of the psyche. Imagine that you can buy anything and anyone. How quickly do you get bored with standard sex?
He himself had histories of varying degrees of abnormality. For example, one new client called me to visit him. I got ready, specified the address and arrived. The usual two-room apartment, with an average repair. We looked around, talked for a couple of minutes, everything seems to be fine. The client is not stoned, behaves normally, without aggression. I asked for my fee, received it, put it in my jacket, went to look at the bed in the bedroom and went to the shower. When I left, my "dove" was already waiting for me, sitting in the center of the bed. I sat down next to him, pushed him onto the pillow, and then my neck was quite competently locked in the back.
I won't bore the reader with the dreary details of gang rape. I will only tell you that after that meeting, I learned that a broken rib heals for a long time and painfully, and after that it reminds of itself for a long time when the weather changes.
I was allowed to leave the apartment four hours later. I saw no point in reporting to the police, since there was not much hope, and I would have to explain how and why I arrived there. By the way, the money was taken out of the jacket, although the mobile phone and documents were set aside. You could say I got off easy. I passed tests for "Venus", hepatitis and HIV, they, fortunately, showed a negative result.
I'm all for what. Not everything is as smooth as it appears to you at first sight. Our business is unkind enough and full of freaks. Moreover, both from the side of clients and from the side of “colleagues in the shop”. And in the absence of legal support and protection, everything becomes very sad.
“Moon” appreciates spiritual bonds and sacredly observes morality, and therefore by this text we in no way call for getting a job.
We also remind you that we consider sexual violence in all its forms and manifestations to be abhorrent and deserving of more serious punishment than currently provided for in the criminal code.
Masha Koshkina
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Lonely and wealthy female representatives, looking for vivid impressions, often find themselves “under the gun” of beautiful, agile, self-aware men. They are used to living at the expense of ladies, satisfying their moral and sexual desires. For some, this is an immoral way of life, but for some it is a daily job.Nowadays, it is customary to call such men, but initially this term was assigned to dance partners. For example, if a woman wanted to dance, and her husband for some reason could not or did not want to take part in this, she resorted to the services of professional dancers, of course, for a monetary reward. If the partner did an excellent job with his duties, he became a favorite who could count on gifts and repeated dates in an informal setting. This profession was not honorary, so the word "gigolo" was often regarded as "lover" or "keeper".
Why do men become gigolos?
It would seem that modern gigolos, or gigolos, are used to getting money out of thin air. However, not every man will be able to unquestioningly fulfill women's whims, look after himself impeccably, play the role of a macho in love and at the same time not react to those around him. This is hard daily work that must be paid. Many who believe that everything in the world is bought and sold are satisfied with the fact that the representative of the stronger sex gives love, tenderness and affection.Men who have “I sell love” written on their foreheads, of course, are not born - they are made. The main reason for this "reincarnation" is easy money, because being a highly paid hero-lover is much more pleasant than unloading wagons or packing goods for a penny. Most often, intimate services are provided by "call boys" who work in nightclubs where wealthy women like to relax.
What else can gigolos do?
Professional gigolos do not stop at satisfying the sexual needs of their partners. They try to become indispensable, so they pay due attention to platonic love. Their goal is to win the full disposition of the lady, to become a true friend, a reliable support in all situations, so that she does not have a need to search for a spiritual life partner. Sometimes a gigolo can play his role so well that a rich woman will not even suspect that next to her is not a man inspired by love, but a thoughtful strategist pursuing selfish goals.Love is perhaps the most beautiful feeling of all time. But, as the harsh reality shows, in the absence of a rich intimate life, feelings gradually begin to fade in most cases. Sex is the most important aspect of not only family happiness, but also the health of both partners. This is especially true for women. It is they who, due to the lack of an intimate life, can develop very unpleasant ailments.
To date, the sex industry has almost become commercial. Surely, few people still do not know about the so-called "priestesses of love." But the gigolo profession is far from being so well known. Meanwhile, it is becoming more and more popular. So what are these men?
Service list
Gigalo work - what is it? Of course, in the first place is intimate pastime. The vast majority of clients who use the services of a gigolo pay money precisely for high-quality sex, which these men are engaged in in the truest sense of the word professionally. However, sometimes not everything is as simple as it seems. Such men are amazing seducers. Their duties include not just putting their client to bed, but doing it beautifully and elegantly. Often, it is precisely the subtle approach that many women lack in order to completely relax and get unearthly pleasure.
Zhigalo is not just a call man. Sometimes he is hired as an escort to a social event or even a dance partner. In the first case, for many women who have a high status in society, the appearance of their companion is very important. A man must certainly be elegant, neat, able to dress with taste, possessing excellent manners. Not to mention the pretty face and athletic build. Zhigalo is an excellent interlocutor who is able to support any topic in a conversation. Even when it comes to politics or global finance. Such a companion at a high-ranking dinner is simply necessary for a lady if she intends to impress all the people present at the evening. average man
hardly able to show his best side in this case. Therefore, for ladies, the way out is more than obvious - to resort to the services of a professional gigolo.
Client types
As a rule, the services of a gigolo are used by wealthy and single ladies who build their careers, but at the same time have absolutely no free time (and desire too) to have a permanent man. But this category of clients does not end there.
Zhigalo is a man who can give any girl an unforgettable night. And since some ladies in their lives had to deal with inept, rude or illiterate lovers, their sensuality is sometimes almost at zero. Simply put, gigolo is the right way to the most enchanting orgasm for such women.
Another category of customers - couples. Many people like to diversify their personal lives, which eventually become boring and insipid. In this case, the gigolo practically saves the marriage, adding a whole new thrill to the intimacy of the spouses. As a rule, such marriages only become stronger. Moreover, the relationship literally comes to life.
Of course, not only women order men on call. After all, there are people with non-traditional sexual orientation. But in this case, the gigolo must necessarily be homosexual or bisexual.
Very often, the services of professional lovers are also used by married women who lack the attention of their spouse. In this case, family psychologists insist on the positive effect of such one-time intimate relationships. In most situations, the marriage does not break up, but continues to exist for a long time.
Cons of the profession
Of course, there are enough costs in this area. For example, excessively passionate clients. After all, a gigolo is, first of all, an attractive appearance. And some ladies in a fit of passion are able to scratch, bite, or even inflict various unpleasant injuries on a man. Of course, "damage to the presentation" is paid in excess of the established rate.
Another disadvantage of a professional lover is a serious risk. First, there are women who need some kind of extreme situation to reach the peak of pleasure. Secondly, there is always a danger that a spouse will return at the wrong time, who does not share his wife's desire to diversify her sexual life.
Why Gigolo?
There are some pretty good reasons for this. Gigolo carefully monitors his health, so clients can not be afraid of contracting unpleasant sexual infections. These men have an excellent figure, are always well-groomed, they know how to give a woman pleasure at the highest level. Zhigalo is an example of elegance and sexuality. In addition, there is always something to talk about with him. Such a man is not ashamed to invite with him to a party where the cream of society will be. That is why more and more women prefer gigolo.
Types of men on call
There are several types of gigolo. In Moscow, for example, there are bright representatives of each of the types described below.
Gigolo Psychologist
These men do not focus on appearance, but on content. Sometimes at first glance, customers may not appreciate them. But in terms of romance, sensuality and a subtle individual approach, there is simply no equal to such gigolos. A man on call of this type knows exactly what to say, how to touch and liberate the client. Psychologists are excellent interlocutors, which is highly valued by women. In addition, they are also very good in bed.
Gigolo handsome
The name of the type speaks for itself. These men take care of their appearance cleaner than girls. They look amazing, of course. But often such gigolos are very spoiled by female attention. Therefore, you can hardly wait for anything but intimacy from them. If a handsome woman is not impressed, for sex
you can't even count. In this case, money does not matter to him.
Gigolo Adventurers
Consciously falling in love with a wealthy client. As a result, they smoothly move into the category of banal gigolos, firmly settling on the neck of a permanent lady. As a rule, after that they quit their main job. Great actors.
When ordering the services of a gigolo, you may not see a beefy, tanned handsome man on the doorstep. However, some call men, having a very mediocre appearance, are simply insanely popular because of their charisma or exploits in the love bed.
The services of a professional gigolo are quite expensive. However, a man may not accept payment from a client. This happens when the customer is dissatisfied. A gigolo can also make money without sex, just by having a heart-to-heart talk with a woman.