Why do my wishes come true? Why are my wishes not fulfilled? Why don't all wishes come true
Wishes come true... I'm dying in childbirth. The girl is born with strong deviations. The husband gives up his career and takes care of his daughter, who dies in a year.
Why don't all wishes come true? This is probably the question everyone asks. So what does the fulfillment of our desires depend on?
Everything we need will come at the right time. But you've probably heard it often: "Be careful what you wish for!" So that you understand what the fulfillment of our desires depends on, I will tell you my story.
Futile attempts
There was a period in my life when I really wanted to give birth to a second child (at that time I already had a son), but all attempts were in vain. I constantly thought about the baby, or rather about the baby, because I was sure that it would be a girl.
I visualized¹ in every detail her appearance, character, my emotions from communicating with her.
My husband and I followed all the prescriptions of the doctors, passed all kinds of tests, but the result was zero. The doctors shrugged, no abnormalities were found in us.
Once, during my next dreams about our daughter, I apparently plunged into a deep trance, and the pictures automatically went to me:
“I stand before the Creator and ask him to give me the opportunity to give birth to a girl. He showed me the answer, he showed it, in the form of a film in which I die during childbirth (and I experienced all the sensations as in reality: I experienced unbearable pain from contractions).
The girl is born with very strong deviations: cerebral palsy and signs of downism. The husband is forced to give up his career and take care of his daughter, who dies in a year. The son's relationship with his father deteriorated.
Wishes come true!
Wishes come true, but what is the end result? My life on Earth was cut short, my husband's career was put to a dead end, my son, left without me, is closed off from the whole world.
The Creator told me that this is not my destiny, that a completely different life awaits me and my family, and he will not allow such a scenario ... But I am not used to giving up, because by my nature I am very stubborn. My husband and I continued to hope, believe in the best and wait.
My stubbornness led to a series of terrible events...
As a result, my stubbornness led to the fact that in 3 years I underwent 5 female operations. But this did not stop us, I was obsessed in my desire.
We made 3 attempts of artificial insemination - all to no avail.
As a result, a series of troubles began in our lives.
My husband has problems at work, I have health problems, my son broke both legs, my father got leukemia…
I will not describe everything, the troubles just rained down one after another ...
At that moment I realized that not all wishes come true!
Then I thought, reviewed the entire chain of events and abandoned the obsession with the birth of a child. I just calmed down...
Problems gradually began to resolve themselves, and sometimes simply in a mystical way, even dad coped with his illness, the doctors were perplexed: “How?” Now, after the lapse of time, I thank the Creator and the Higher powers for that invaluable experience.
I learned to control my desires and ask my higher self: “What will my desire lead to?”. This is how I separate right desires from empty “wishlists” and obsessions. Only after receiving a satisfactory answer, I proceed to implement the plan.
Does it depend on the fulfillment of your desires?
This is the most important moment on which the fulfillment of desires depends. If something is not given to you, but you passionately dream about it - think about it, what will the fulfillment of a dream lead to?
Desires come true if they are approved by the Higher Forces or your subconscious.
How to check that the desire is correct?
To check the possibility of fulfilling your desire, follow these steps.
1. Sit or lie down in a comfortable position.
2. Relax all muscles, close your eyes, breathing is even, calm.
3. Clearly formulate your desire and ask permission from the Higher Self to realize your desire.
4. Let go of all thoughts and wait.
The response may come in the form of a picture, a direct voice response, or a sensation. True desires always cause pleasant sensations. Each one has an individual response.
Don't be discouraged if you don't get a response right away. It may come unexpectedly during the day. If you don't get a response, go about your daily business and try again next time.
Try to coordinate all your desires in this way, then you will protect yourself and others from negative consequences. Moreover, this way you will receive energy for its implementation. Using any technique, you will know for sure that your desires will come true.
Rudneva Evgenia
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¹Visualization - the general name for the methods of presenting numerical information or a physical phenomenon in a form convenient for visual observation and analysis (
The last months have been for me a time of discoveries, revelations and, I'm not afraid of this word, insights. It probably happens to everyone. When you suddenly understand a lot and move on to another, higher and better stage, where everything is much easier and simpler. And you think in amazement about why you didn’t understand all this before, because life constantly gives us clues.
Treasured desires. Why are they not being implemented?
Clinging to what we do not need in life does not give us happiness. Life goes on in constant expectation. Each person has several cherished and many, many different small desires. The trouble is that cherished desires are often not really such, they are simply inspired by society, fashion or family. For example, a person stubbornly makes a career, "dreaming" about moving up the career ladder, in an area that he actually does not like. Well, he does not get any joy or pleasure from work, but at the same time he is very afraid to admit it to himself and stubbornly climbs to the heights of this business.
At the same time, the soul sheds tears, but the mind pretends not to hear anything and continues to “dream” about a high position.
A person begins to look for various ones, finds and makes his "cherished" desire for a brilliant career, visualizing himself in the director's chair and giving instructions to his subordinates. But for some reason, the desire does not come true in any way, the person falls into the grip of idealization and into a constant, painful expectation. What is the joy of life when the cherished desire is not fulfilled in any way! And it is unlikely to be fulfilled, because only those desires are fulfilled in which the mind and soul go in unison and are completely united. And they can be united when a person goes through life, fulfilling his destiny. It is likely that in some other area a person could achieve much greater heights by doing what pleases his soul.
Therefore, it is useless to visualize yourself where your soul does not aspire.
I have long understood that it is necessary to give life and higher powers the opportunity to lead you in the right direction, and not run ahead of the engine, and in the completely opposite direction. Or swim against the current, completely exhausted and not allowing yourself to relax and just get high from how the river of life carries you in the right direction. Instead, we spoil our lives, suffer, suffer, and stubbornly go to what we absolutely do not need! Clinging to the past and constantly "drinking sawdust", we earn ourselves depression and illness. We constantly face our past, proving something there, explaining, looking through situations, and we stand backwards to our future and present. At the same time, we experience negative emotions, poisoning ourselves and radiating not very good vibrations into our field. So where does joy and happiness come from in our lives?
Or, for example, a woman about a wonderful man whom she will marry and live with him in joy and happiness. Now everyone is talking about the fact that in this case it is necessary to submit an “application” to the Universe, describing your ideal man on a piece of paper. After all, as they say, what is written with a pen .... And that's the trouble. But don't you think that the higher powers know better what kind of man you need? And can you describe and take into account all the nuances? And are you sure that even if such a man comes, you will live happily with him all your life? This method worked in the 3D world, but now the world is changing rapidly.
How easy it is to fulfill your desires
The same goes for things. There is no need to describe the car in detail, it is enough just to feel yourself in this car, the smell of expensive leather, the joy of riding in this car.
In general, in any case, whether you want a good job, a man, a car, an apartment, and so on, do not limit yourself to the limits of your mind, let life give you the best option for you!
Do not imagine specifically Vasya, Petya, the house on Rublyovka or a white Cadillac, do not describe anything in detail, just feel the joy that you have it! What matters is your feelings, your emotions, what matters is what you radiate. In that case, the mind and soul are one and you will get what you need. And, quite likely, it will be a little (or a lot!) Not what you imagined and invented. Let miracles enter your life, learn to trust higher powers, your Guardian Angels and all those who help you through life. Let them give you the best, don't cling to anything in particular. Your brain doesn't always know exactly what you really need in life. Do not limit yourself, do not set yourself narrow limits. Believe me, it is much easier and more interesting to live this way!
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Today I want to talk about such an important point as obstacles to the fulfillment of desires. Why our desires are not fulfilled or are fulfilled very slowly and with difficulty. Who has not encountered such nasty things, when you do everything, think correctly, let go of what you want, but it still stops somewhere and what you are waiting for does not happen. Or everything is moving correctly, in the right direction, and then again! And collapsed just before the finish line. I think that such moments are familiar to many. So what is the matter, how to deal with it and what is really happening - we will try to figure it out in this article.
Let's start with the root cause. How do certain things, events, situations appear in our life? The process is always the same. Any object or phenomenon is born at a subtle level by getting some information into the energy environment. For example, a thought, a word, an emotion. There is an energy-information cluster that has received starting energy and, like everything else in the Universe, strives for development. And one of the components of this development is precisely the manifestation in physical reality. It's just a matter of gaining the right amount of energy to obtain physical outlines. It takes time to gain that much energy. Therefore, there is a certain temporary buffer between the conceived and the fulfilled. And this buffer can be longer or shorter for only one reason: how quickly this idea is filled with the necessary amount of energy. The faster it fills, the faster it will appear. But many factors influence the filling speed. And they must be taken into account, since careless handling of one's own desires can not only significantly slow down the receipt of the result, but, in general, hack the process in the bud. You can learn more about the process of fulfilling desires from the book "".
So let's find out the factors that have such a serious impact on the achievement of our ideas. Since the most important element of materialization is the filling of a certain thought form (ideas, desires) with energy, it is obvious that everything that slows down this energy flow or destroys it is hostile to us and our goals. And everything that increases the materializing energy flow is, of course, very useful and friendly. And our main task here is to understand these two opposites.
We talked a lot about what helps the process of materialization and we will talk more. And about why our desires are most often not fulfilled, we'll talk today.
What are the main obstacles to the fulfillment of desires
So why, most often, our desires are not fulfilled.
You can not fulfill your desires, but it is much more energy-consuming and it will bring much less satisfaction at the end, compared to true desires.
2. You too obsessed on a specific one version of the fulfillment of this desire. The thing is that we can create pictures in our head based only on the experience that we have received up to the current moment of our life. And what we have not yet learned cannot be recognized by our physical brain. This is how we are. And the Universe is much wider and wiser than us. She can have a million ways to give us what we want, only much easier, faster and different than we see. But with our obsession with one of our options, we do not give an opportunity for the creation of the Universe, since we do not even try to consider other ways of achieving it, which it constantly throws at us. And, perhaps, the solution has been lying under our noses for a long time, but due to our limitations and narrow vision, we simply do not realize it.
In this case, meditation, a state of detachment and relaxation, helps very well. Then the brain is not tense and the signs, symbols that are sent to us from Above can freely enter the consciousness.
Still works very well technique "What else".
This technique is done like this: we take any of our desires, a sheet, a pen. We ask ourselves the question: "What could I do to get this?" Some answer comes, we write it down and again we ask ourselves: "What else?" And we write again. Answers write absolutely everything, even the most incredible and fabulous. Here it is important to show your brain that it can look for solutions in different directions, and not just within a meter radius. Write answers until you are completely empty. When you feel that you are exhausted, you can take a break and come back in a few hours, or even days. And then, when everything is completely, read your answers, think, look for clues wider and wider. In this way, you are not only really looking for non-standard solutions, you are accustoming your brain to think on a large scale and effectively. And the most important thing is that you learn to see the clues of the Universe and not get hung up on the narrow solution of the issue.
3. One of our favorite delicacies - discuss your unfulfilled desires with people. Yes, sometimes you want to shout to the whole world. But there are some very serious pitfalls here.
Not all people are your well-wishers. A person, listening to you, connects to this desire energetically. And intentionally or not intentionally, it can be powered by your already well-filled desire energetically, thereby taking away part of the energy from the thought form. Also, if a person envies and wants the same for himself, he will create and nourish his thought form, relying on yours. Just returning thoughts to your desire. Desire is originally an astral-mental structure until it manifests and becomes a physical form. When you work with desires, it is necessary to keep your astral and mental body as pure as possible. When you share this desire with a person, you do not know in what state his astral and mental body is. And with such communication, you interact at the level of these bodies. And if his place is dirty, and yours is clean, naturally, when communicating, he will clean up, and you will become clogged. Another thing is that you, working on yourself, will then return to the previous state again, but a person, leading a former way of life, will pick up new dirt in the energy structure. But this does not make it any easier for you if he cleans up and recharges from your energetic desire, to which you connected him by talking about him.
That is why it is very useful to want to let go. This is also written in great detail in the book and even more with meditations - in the course.
4. A very serious obstacle to the fulfillment of the plan is lack of energy in the owner of desire. I constantly say that the fulfillment of desires is not some separate magical process. This is a complex change of a person from a weak loser to a strong, healthy and lucky person. And all that is necessary for this is to strive to learn the Laws of the Universe and live in accordance with them. ALL! Do you understand? The universe is a mirror. You take a step towards her, she takes a step towards you. Only it is larger and its steps are larger, therefore, by taking a few small steps towards the Universe, a person can receive a lot of disproportionately great benefits.
One of the basic principles that operate in the Universe is energy exchange. Everything lives and develops in the process of energy exchange. We said that everything has its beginning at the level of energy. It is at this level that we are all one. We differ only in the vibrational range. On the site in the section "" you can find a lot of information on this topic.
But here we are talking about the fact that the first thing to do for yourself and your loved one and your future is to restore, clean and fill your energy structure. It all starts with energy. If a person has no energy, he has no vitality and there can be no talk of any desires. In order for desires to be fulfilled, they need to be filled, and from where to be filled with them, if the owner is breathing hard, he himself does not have a resource! And energy is everything. This is health, vitality, fresh thoughts, new relationships, good mood. This is all life! That's why you're aware How to fulfill your desires and move to a new level of life"So much attention is paid to energy and healing practices, with the help of which you can help not only yourself, but also your loved ones, regardless of the distance. And the name of the course speaks for itself. After all, we said that this wish fulfillment is not just some a separate process, this is not random luck, this is a way of life on the high crest of a wave of success and prosperity.
You can read about energy filling, purification and other work with the energy structure in the section ""
5. And I want to say one more thing. When you have worked everything out correctly, conceived a desire, nourished, released, then stop teasing him further. What I mean. When you remember your desire, HOW you do it is very important. If you start thinking about how bad it is that he is not there yet, you are simply taking away energy from him. You feed it with negativity. It must be burned with a red-hot iron. If you want to think about your desire, dream, you just relax your solar plexus, enter the state, as if you have already received everything and are in such a happy state of gratitude for the wish that came true. You can do this as much as you want and the more often the better. In this way, you let even more creative energy into your desired picture.
Perhaps these are all the points on which I would like to draw your attention today.
I wish you the fulfillment of your desires and the brightest life events!
Just in case, let me remind you that the book " Create your own reality"You can order for free.
With best wishes for good and happiness,
What do we not dream of during our lives! To be beautiful and successful, loved and highly professional, to have a villa in the Caribbean and a small cozy cottage in the suburbs... But why don't our wishes come true?...
If all human desires were fulfilled, the globe would become hell.
Pierre Buast
Man is the only creature whose development depends entirely on his desires and on interaction with his own kind in the process of their implementation. He has a sense of the past, present and future, is influenced by the environment and influences it himself.
He can weigh his chances and adjust his behavior. With the awakening of another desire, new needs are born in him, and he feels the need to satisfy them. To accomplish this task, he has to evolve.
If a person does not feel a lack of something, he stops in development. Only an unsatisfied desire makes us put our minds into action and look for ways to solve the problem.
Desire is the engine of progress. It is it that pushes us forward, causing everything that happens to a person individually and to humanity as a whole. The continuous development of desire shapes the present as well as the future towards which we are moving.
Why, then, does a person experience a permanent stress, trapped in your unfulfilled desires?
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The biggest reason is misguided motivation.
A person's desires are sometimes associated not only with the needs of his survival, well-being and development, but also with competition.
Yes, a person is constantly changing, but this is due not so much to the degree of comfort of his existence as to the desire to possess what others have.
All the trouble is that he not only wants to have much more than his neighbor, it is important for him that the latter have less than him. Therefore, very often human desire is denoted by such terms as "egoism", "desire for exceptional pleasures" or "desire to receive the highest pleasure."
Why do we envy the employee who left marry a rich foreigner and left for permanent residence in America, why are we ready to look for flaws in it and gossip about the fact that there is no smell of love there, just one naked calculation?
Why are we in a hurry to stigmatize the successful, to expose the successful, to criticize the talented, to denigrate the hardworking, to doubt the kind and smart? Why?
because we would not only like to be the same ourselves, but also surpass, prove our exclusivity, irreplaceability, originality, uniqueness, etc. Even without being aware of this, we aim only in the category of "highest grade". And as a result, we get a permanent stress of unfulfilled expectations.
The bar is too high
How to understand your desires? They constantly change, interact, complement and mutually exclude each other. Sometimes we load our brains like this...
Michael Jackson has repeatedly said that he would like to live forever. And he was obsessed with the idea of cloning. And how did it all end?
- Who does not love me - let him love!
- I want to have a baby!
- I want to be baptized in the Spirit, I want to inherit the Kingdom of Heaven...
- I want to go to the sea!
- I want to go to space!
- “But I want, but I want to run over the roofs again, chase pigeons ...”
I want a lover, strong, rich, kind, free, blue-eyed, handsome, smart, enterprising, sensitive, gentle, courageous, without bad habits, with a car, a country house, a good job, a position in society, relatives on the other side of the world ... Maybe , stop?..
I want to graduate from high school, get an excellent certificate and wave to Paris!
I want to make history...
I want to be the champion...
I wanna be with you!
I want purple shades!
I want a man!
Oh, and I saw such a cool "Nissan Qashqai" red! Want!!!
And I would eat lasagna!
Stop, stop! Decide what is most important to you and what you want in the first place: ice cream or a villa in the Caribbean? And then weigh your chances.
Perhaps your burning dream of becoming a famous basketball player will run into a simple and understandable objective reality associated with short stature.
How to stop chasing your dream?
The Consequences of Impossible Desires
If desires are constantly not fulfilled, a person becomes discouraged and experiences stress.
Stress is the result of disappointment from unfulfilled desires. How does this happen?
Here is what V. A. Latyshev writes about this in his book “Energy Therapy - EURASIA”:
“As a result of the failure to fulfill a desire, a strong focus of “frozen” - undischarged emotion is formed in the cerebral cortex, which subjugates all the activity of the body - its energy flows, all thoughts and actions of a person.
To restore harmony, it is necessary to eliminate, discharge the "frozen" emotion (a clot of "perverted" energy) or sublimate this energy potential.
Otherwise, after the appearance of a focus of "frozen" emotion, a chain reaction begins to develop - the hypothalamus is excited, which causes the pituitary gland to secrete a lot of adrenocorticotropic hormones (ACTH) into the blood.
ACTH causes the adrenal glands to secrete adrenaline and other physiologically active substances (stress hormones) that cause a multifaceted effect: a strong heartbeat, rapid breathing, unstable blood pressure, headaches and other ailments, as well as corresponding feelings of anger, fear, excitement, etc.
If there is no subsequent energy discharge, biologically active substances circulate in the human blood for a long time, which do not give rest to either the nervous system or internal organs.
Due to the fact that the stressful situation persists - "frozen" emotions are not discharged, an unmet need sends impulses to the cerebral cortex and stress hormones (energy imbalance) continue to be released.
The task of a person, as a living energy system, is to satisfy his needs without coming into conflict with himself, with the people around him and with the whole outside world, that is, without causing new tensions.
Each satisfied need brings a person closer to the goal.- to harmony with oneself, with the outside world and a sense of security (freedom from anxiety - tension).
Sometimes the stress caused by the impossibility of desires, a person neutralizes strange newly acquired manias and habits. For example, he becomes a television or computer "maniac", does not crawl away from the saving illusory nature of the blue screen, which replaces his real life.
Live sexual desires are not satisfied? You can resort to virtual sex or video. The dream of love does not come true - you can come up with it using correspondence with the same disembodied user under a universal faceless nickname.
Surrogates of love, sex, life... How many now modified phantoms of fulfilled desires. But in the morning, in the evening and in the afternoon, reality suddenly overtakes ...
Then new manias overtake a person:
An impulsive desire to buy everything. Oniomania and shopmania with their varieties: sales mania (sale mania) - a painful desire to buy things on sale, label mania (mania of labels) - dependence on advertised brands.
The pursuit of the "company" turns into an obsessive state, into the impossibility for a person to buy anything else. Turns around, for example, gadget addiction - a passion for the constant acquisition of all technical innovations, in 99% of cases unnecessary. Or "leads" junk food addiction - an obsessive desire to visit chains of fast food restaurants.
sexomania
graphomania
Melomania
Gluttony
The worst thing is that when drinking, eating, drowning out their internal impulses in all sorts of ways harmful to his body, a person does not think about the consequences of such consolations.
And he does not notice how the stress gradually caused by disappointment in unfulfilled desires leads to the inhibition of the machine of his desires. And sometimes to a complete stop. The person seems to put an end to himself and no longer wants to do anything. So, it stops in its development.
How to free yourself from the captivity of desires
Each of us already has what he needs at the moment at this level of his development. Not everyone can accept this immutable and deafening fact with joy and gratitude and make it the launching pad for a new round of life.
We just want to compare ourselves with someone more successful and prosperous and include in our list of priorities what we don’t need or can’t do yet. We, like magpies, who see a bright object, set off after prey, and then this object gathers dust on our shelf and does not find its application.
But in the pursuit of it, we experienced many side effects that are rapidly moving us away from a harmonious state of happiness. What to do?
1. Get rid of the future tense. Constant thoughts about the future poison the present.
2. Break the habit of constantly comparing yourself to others!
3. Make a list of your joys today. It can be unexpectedly long. This will cheer you up and make you think that not everything is so bad.
4. Review everything you already have and what else do you want. After all, “the desire for what we do not have destroys the enjoyment of what we have” (Michel Montaigne).
In fact, it will turn out that most of our desires belong to the realm of so-called surpluses, without which it is quite possible to do without. “If you don’t want much, then even a little will seem like a lot to you.” (Democritus)
5. Be clear about what you want. Sometimes there is such a mess in our head that even a modern brain, trained with large amounts of information, cannot disentangle it.
For some of our desires overlap and even exclude others, but we do not notice it. We, for example, want to marry the rich and famous, not work, and still reach the top of our careers. How this can be combined, few know.
6. Think about the consequences of fulfilling your desires. Just imagine what the fulfillment of the desire to become a billionaire can turn out to be for a simple Masha Penkina, a saleswoman from the wholesale market.
Remember the words of one wise woman: “If you want to have something, it means that at the same time it will have you!” (Dina Dean)
7. Release your desires! Think of them only as the engine of your progress, and not as a noose around your neck. Then it will be easier for you to cope with the disappointments that are inevitable on our way.
8. Don't run away from the stress of impossible wishes into the realm of artificial gratification, which is associated with psychotropic substances and other delusions. No alcohol, drug or antidepressant will make you a happy person.
9. If you are a believer, read the wise prayer of the Optina Elders in difficult moments of disappointment.
“Lord, give me peace of mind to meet everything that the coming day brings me. Let me completely surrender to the will of Your Holy One. Whatever news I receive during the day, teach me to accept it with a calm soul and firm conviction that everything is Your Holy Will. In all my words and deeds guide my thoughts and feelings. Teach me to act directly and reasonably with each member of my family, without embarrassing or upsetting anyone. Lord, give me the strength to endure the fatigue of the coming day and all the events during the day. Guide my will and teach me to pray, believe, hope, endure, forgive and love. Amen". |
And I also think it is very useful to listen to the words of those who, by the example of their whole lives, showed that “there are two desires, the fulfillment of which can make a person’s true happiness - to be useful and to have a clear conscience” (Leo Tolstoy).
Irina VLASENKO