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How to find girls using dating, where to start, how to behave, what to write?

To get to know exactly the one who will communicate with you, you should pay attention to her profile. Pay attention to the quality of the photo, if it is good and beautiful, then she loves herself, takes care of herself. But it does mean that you need to meet these requirements. It may not be necessary in the photo, but when communicating, the girl will definitely pay attention to this. But this does not mean that you have to choose the most ugly! No. Just pick something in between. Your photo is what girls look at first. It is better to use a real one, photos of famous people and pictures from the Internet can be repulsive if she does not use a similar picture.

There are many subtleties to which you should pay attention. If you do not take them into account, then you will not be able to reach the goal.

• Be sure to make some kind of compliment, appreciate the beauty of her eyes, waist, legs, etc., but just don't exaggerate, girls don't like being flattered or turning to vulgarities.
• Be careful with questions, try not to strain with questions about your personal life until you reach a certain level of familiarity.
• Before asking questions, look at her profile, there you can see the features that you can pay attention to. Thus, you will be able start your conversation Or find something to joke about.
• It should be understood that in communication it is necessary to be original with a beautiful girl, try to feel the rhythm of communication and apply your originality at the right time.
• Indicate in your profile that in the search for meetings, so that your seriousness can be seen, try to fill out the questionnaire as much as possible. After all, this is where your communication begins.
• If you want to find her using similar acquaintances in the Internet, perhaps she will also be insecure, so you should ask your chosen one a few questions if you need the quality of self-confidence. In your profile, in the field about yourself, indicate that I want to find a confident woman, and she will definitely be interested in you.

A sense of humor is a big plus if you use it skillfully. Try to look at your acquaintance and communication with humor, because most of the guys who say they are in search on a dating site are insecure and maybe even inadequate people. Apply your delicacy and good manners and your messages will not just be in the attention and they will want to get to know you.

If a beautiful girl wants to find a relationship on the site, then most likely she works a lot and she has little time to spend time with friends or colleagues, then it is not difficult for her to share with you about her work and profession. If she is closed about her work, then most likely she is not her favorite and the girl is just bored, try to cheer up or offer to take a walk.

Do not bother the girl with your messages and do not wait for her while she is offline, try to show that you are busy and that you rarely manage to be on the site. Do not write to the girl a lot, pause so that she can think.

You don’t need to tell that you are waiting for the one and not repeatable, say that you want to find it everywhere and that’s why you are here and use even such an acquaintance. Girls will perceive you as purposeful, and for them this is very important.

If a guy wants to find his companion for a long time, then you should think about yourself and start listening to advice, most likely there will be some truth in them.

If you use a simple resource, be prepared for the fact that it is only possible to meet a simple girl there. Using a paid one, then users on this one are eliminated and there you will probably feel differently in communication.

Pay attention to their status, some do not write that I want to find a guy for meetings, but that I just want to find a guy for friendship. Perhaps the girls changed their status because they were disappointed, but you have a chance to stir her up and start dating with friendship.

Do not rush to ask for her phone number or make an appointment, only in exceptional cases. You need to ensure that the beautiful woman herself gives it to you. She may hint about it, but when she gets tired she will give it herself.

Try to call her by her first name, it basically always works in a good way when a person hears her name.

Pay attention to those that are not constantly online. Perhaps now is such a period, but still it’s worth considering what she does in her free time and if she constantly sits in the Internet, then most likely "Princess and the Pea" it will be difficult to take out for a walk or it will take a long time to hook up with her.

Nobody canceled the first impression. How you show yourself from the very beginning, such will be the result of your seduction. If you make mistakes at the very beginning, it will be difficult to catch up and the best option for further development is to switch to communication with another girl.

The task of your profile is to make a positive impression on her, she should want to write first, so you can help in this by writing in the status that I am looking for, that I will meet and ready to communicate. Do not miss it, describe who you are ready to meet and you will see that they will not write to you with girls with whom you would not want to get in touch.

Be a romantic - indicate that I will meet, that you want to find your soul mate, and you will see how messages start coming to you from the site and you will succeed.

How many times have you seen a beautiful girl on the street with a beautiful figure and legs from molars, but for some reason did not get to know each other? I bet every man has been in this situation more than once.

Dating on the street is like a lottery. You never know who your interlocutor will turn out to be - a liar, an intriguer, a student, a teacher, or a not very smart girl with a huge megalomania. Be that as it may, almost all young people and girls have a desire to get acquainted. Why do so few happy couples at the registry office door report that their meeting place was an ordinary street? Because, oddly enough, the fear of meeting on the street lives in the souls of guys and girls.

So, why are girls afraid to meet on the street? Everything is simple here. If a guy sees a girl on the street and with a smile in all 32 teeth says “Girl, I really liked you. Let's get acquainted! ”, Then what will be the probability of refusal? That's right, 70% of the girls will respond negatively to the proposal to meet.

Why? Yes, because for a woman there is a danger of rape. Therefore, attempts at dating in dark alleys and wastelands are doomed not only to failure, but also to a long-term treatment of a girl's stuttering. Some female individuals refuse to try to get acquainted just because the street does not give any recommendations. Sheer stupidity. You might think that the Internet, the Lenin Library, or an employment contract with the same organization give any guarantee of a person's decency.

Also, girls refuse to meet on the street because of the opinion of others that it is supposedly indecent. Interesting movie! At a disco, it means decent, but 100 meters from it, on the street, it’s indecent. Although I am a girl, sometimes even for me, female logic remains a mystery.

Now let's figure it out why do guys get scared before meeting a girl on the street?

Young people are simply afraid of rejection.. The situation is stupid. You understand with your head that she will not bite you, after all! But fear continues to envelop you. In this case, you need to realize for yourself a few common truths. Learn to push yourself. A man all his life must suppress fear, self-doubt and prove, first of all, to others that he is the strongest, smartest and generally the best. Girls always subtly feel and appreciate this struggle.

How to meet a girl on the street? Remember, everyone is afraid of rejection. It's just that someone successfully overcame this fear and now easily gets acquainted with the most beautiful girls on the streets. And you are worse?

In general, if you think about it, the fear of a possible rejection is very strange. Here, think for yourself. Fear of rejection - what is it? Fear of losing the prospective interlocutor. The key word is supposed. In order to be afraid of losing something, you must first possess it. And you have a beauty, proudly striding ahead is still far from yours. She is anyone's - mother's, father's, brother's, and even husband's, but not yours. Yes, it is in your power to make it yours. But for this you need not be afraid of mythical failures, but act.

The girl is the same person as you, only of a different sex. She also wants new acquaintances, friendship, and maybe a romantic relationship. But in any case, when meeting on the street, be internally tuned immediately to a possible failure. Treat it like a game: hit the target, miss it. Don't take a possible rejection to heart. After all, not always a girl is disposed to acquaintance. She may be in a bad mood, problems at work, not feeling well.

Now let's look at an example scenario of how to meet a girl on the street

How to approach a girl you are interested in on the street?
First, no sudden movements. In modern girls, the impressionability and even timidity of muslin young ladies are whimsically combined with the decisiveness and combat readiness of the soldiers of the Israeli army. Therefore, extra too sharp movements towards the ladies of the 21st century can provoke blows with an unbearable handbag in the most unexpected places. And the treatment of multiple fractures is costly. Therefore, the main rule of the beginning of acquaintance is friendliness, tenderness and accuracy.

The second step in meeting a girl on the street is to make a good impression. Any acquaintance begins at first sight. Naturally, the girl first evaluates the appearance, and then the behavior. Therefore, in order to be able to demonstrate your wit, gallantry and tenderness, you must pass face control. It is not necessary to have the appearance of Brad Pitt and others like him. In addition, in the minds of many girls, the saying is firmly rooted that a man should be a little more beautiful than a monkey. So away from the complexes regarding their own appearance! Don't be offended, but the vast majority of girls choose ugly men in order to feel like at least photo models next to them.

So, back to our tasks of how to meet a girl on the street. A good impression can only be made by having a neat appearance. That is, a neat haircut, well-groomed hair, ironed and clean clothes that suit your image. Of course, clean boots, which, despite the settled dust of the streets, show that they were cleaned before leaving the house, and not wiped with a handkerchief a minute ago. Another very important note is the condition of your hands and nails. If they are dirty, then do not blame me, the girl will not like it. The first impression is formed in the first 3-5 seconds, and in the next 2 seconds, a woman already knows exactly how far she will allow a particular man to go in a relationship with her.

Your next task is to get the girl's attention. There are hundreds, if not thousands, of ways to interest a woman on the street. The easiest way to start a casual conversation is to ask for help in finding a street. Yes, the easiest thing to ask on the street is where something is or how to get there. Everyone answers such questions, if they know, of course.

But if the girl you really liked answers “Unfortunately, I don’t know,” then for the sake of your general happiness, cheat and give her a hint yourself like “there is a man in a helmet and a tree.” By the answer, intonation and behavior, you can immediately determine how interested the girl is in you. And my advice to you, if a woman is not in the mood for a conversation, starts to get nervous or tries to move on, then do not hold her. Say goodbye politely and wish you good luck. If a girl is disposed to acquaintance, then she herself will ask questions, joke, actively participate in the conversation.

If your head is completely empty, then below I will give 20 phrases that will help you start dating on the street. In this case, the main thing is to start, and with a little experience, you yourself will learn to improvise.

Phrases for meeting a girl on the street

Girl, look, there is no hook anywhere on my T-shirt? And then I'm following you as if tied - hooked, probably

Girl, teach me how to eat watermelon, huh? And then I can't. I eat the crust - and have already eaten ...

Girl, where's that sand that you walked on? I run to kiss him. If you want, I will kiss this asphalt for you! I will kiss any rubbish for you, even your girlfriend and your husband!

Girl, I came from your girlish dreams!.. It's in Siberia, you don't know...

Girls, I'm sorry for not taking your phones earlier, we can fix it and do it now

You have nice spirits. What are their names? I will buy the same ones and perfume my cat with them so that she would remind me of you.

You are incredibly similar to my first wife! I haven't met her yet.

And you have been dreaming of me for a long time, and I don’t even know what to call you in a dream. If you say your name, then I can talk to you, even if only in my sleep.

What is your shoe size? Well, we met

Have you ever been to Paris? Do you want to visit (more)? I'm going in 5 years, I can take you with me.

You look so intelligent with glasses... I don't even know if I can interest you in anything.

Touch my forehead. It looks like I have a fever.

I want to meet you, but nothing comes to mind. Save the situation!

You look tired, must have been a hard day?

Will I walk with you? (Most likely, they won’t answer anything ... But it’s worth walking for a couple of minutes, this is already from NLP. And then start a conversation).

Are you in a hurry? I so want to treat you to ice cream!

If you didn't have hands, you would look like the Venus de Milo.

And what is it like to be the most beautiful girl in this city?

I have a request to you: allow me to give you this flower? I would like to see you someday and give you a big bouquet of roses. Do you love roses?

How to have a conversation when meeting a girl?

As we already understood, attracting the attention of a girl you like is a simple matter. It is more difficult to keep him and achieve a second meeting. Very often, after the first successful phrase, the conversation quickly fizzles out, because the man could not build it correctly.

Since you were the initiator of the acquaintance, the entire responsibility for conducting the conversation falls on your shoulders. Always keep at the ready a few topics that you know well. Remember, the vast majority of girls are not interested in sports, politics, economics, fishing, hunting, cars. And here it’s not even about the lady’s interest, just getting to know you should bring her pleasure. Therefore, choose such topics, talking on which you can relax and dream.

At the first meeting, neither jokingly nor seriously, do not touch on the topic of vulgarity and sex. Even the most innocent comic hint will put an end to your further communication.

In no case, do not tell her that she is so beautiful that you are ready to give up everything for her, go to the North Pole and crawl there on your knees around your goddess. Girls are very sensitive to flattery, and too obvious flattery borders on a lie in their minds. Nevertheless, do not skimp on compliments, which should reflect the true state of affairs. If she has a beautiful figure, then mark it. But do not praise her sparse hair with bald spots.

When asking questions, formulate phrases so that a one-word answer like yes-no-maybe-don't know is excluded. Only questions that need to be given a full, detailed answer will make it possible to build a full-fledged conversation.

When you first meet, talk about yourself as little as possible. You can say briefly: what do you do (only without boasting, more modestly) and the status of personal freedom. Try to lie less in the main things, girls really don’t like even the smallest inconsistencies. You should also not dump everything at once and in large quantities, although many women want to know the entire biography. Better keep quiet about something, promise to tell next time. This will increase your chances of a second date. Give information about yourself a little, from meeting to meeting. And at the first meeting, leave as much mystery as possible. Girls by nature are very curious, like cats, and love riddles.

How to say goodbye to a girl?

Even if a girl likes you, she may still be afraid to leave her phone number. Offer her your phone, but don't get your hopes up, women don't like to call first. Therefore, be smart and offer to exchange “ICQs”, emails, nicknames on Skype, or simply make an appointment for the next meeting in a cafe or other crowded place. Show all the romanticism of your soul and say that every day for three days you will come to the place of your meeting and wait for it. Girls usually like it very much. Now the main thing is not to be late for the second date and everything will be in the best possible way!

Agree, it turns out that meeting a girl you like on the street is not so difficult! Be open to communication and everything will turn out as it should be. And if suddenly the first, second, fifth, seventh acquaintances do not end in anything, then do not be upset. You tried, realized your desire. After all, your, male task is to offer yourself. And we, women, will still choose.

Tell me, have you ever had such a thing that when you saw a girl who seemed to have stepped off the cover of a magazine, you thought you wanted her? Wanted her to be your girlfriend? I'm sure it happened more than once! Do you think this is correct?

I will help you figure it out and give you the right understanding of the situation!

Unfortunately, in our society, in the minds of men and young guys, the attitude that a beautiful girl must be “glued”, that she must be made your girlfriend, has become stronger. This is a very bad setup. deep down you don't believe in it. Our consciousness wants to deceive us. Men think that if the appearance is beautiful, then the character is the same. But this is a big misconception. Let me remind you once again that the girl has a natural x-ray and sees right through you.

View from a different angle

you come to girl to meet, all blurry in a smile and think how she would like it ... not knowing who she is and whether she should like it at all. You don't comply balance of significance. Girls feel this behavior and immediately put you in the category of guys who have few girls and who are ready to give a hand to cut off to sleep with her. Yes, yes, buddy! It really is!

Agree, it’s stupid to approach, spread out in front of her like a rug (this is exactly what the behavior of the vast majority of guys looks like) and try to please her right away. Get that thought out of your head! As soon as she sees a needy person in front of her, she will start throwing checks (actually, this happens almost always, but especially at such moments) in the form of disrespect for you, manifested in small things.

And with the wrong reaction, you are guaranteed to spoil everything even at the initial stages. And then the guys say that the girl is unavailable or a bitch, etc. And in this case, rebuffing is the best thing that can happen to you if you behave like this. The worst thing is when a girl shamelessly uses you, your feelings, and you still don’t get anything.

How to behave in order to be able to meet a beautiful girl

It is undesirable to smile strongly during an acquaintance. A slight smile is enough at the moment when communication develops in the best way. It is necessary to show with words (or rather, the meaning of your words) and actions that mutual interest can arise only if you like her as a person. Notice some interesting nuance in her behavior, on the basis of which draw a conclusion about her. This will have a much stronger effect than a banal compliment.

In no case do not use the dispersal of the psyche, because. not only will it not give you a decent result, but it will also have a bad effect on your beliefs

About compliments...

If the girl is beautiful, then do not compliment her appearance! She sees herself in the mirror every day and has long studied her external data 100%, and the compliments of other guys are reflected in her thoughts as “Well, yes, I already know that. Next. Free!” If you want to give a compliment, then make it addressed to her personality. Best of all, it will work after your communication, when you are convinced that she is at least a little developed person. If she is doing something interesting, then say that it is commendable, that she looks like an ordinary person and you didn’t even think that she was so interesting.

Unfortunately, I cannot give you ready-made phrases (although it would be nice if they existed. Our life would be much easier), because situations are different. And the point here is not in specific phrases, but in your ability to calibrate (feel) the girl's real reaction to her actions. If you want to get good specific results in your personal life, then you need to purposefully develop in this direction.

I'll give you advice: practice and DO NOT trust your feelings!

Weird? Not at all! A man is what he believes in. And if the example of friends, TV, parents have been drumming into you for years that you need to take care of girls, always call first, and meet with her often, then your feelings will deceive you. Only practice will help you. At first, of course, you will be uncomfortable behaving differently than you are used to, but this path is worth it! After enough practice, you will learn to feel everything as it really is, and you will learn meet girls not only on the street but also in other places.

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Probably everyone met HER - a girl who is so beautiful that it is even scary to approach her. But what if someone still wants to do it? And will that someone be you?
The truth is that the more beautiful the girl, the more likely it is that all the guys around are simply afraid to talk to her.

So, we bring to your attention 10 tips, thanks to which you can be ahead of everyone, and understand how and what to talk about with a very attractive girl.

If you consider yourself a mega macho who cannot learn anything new in this matter, skip this article. Comments like: "Ugh, this is an article for inexperienced teenagers," will be deleted immediately, this article is for teenagers who need advice.

For the pros, we always have a sea of ​​interesting and other articles .

Number 10. Understand when she is ready to communicate and when she is NOT.

It is very important to develop the ability to understand when a girl is ready to communicate with you, and when not. Does she turn away when she looks at you? Does she look down on you? When you better understand what this or that look of a girl means, then your success will increase SIGNIFICANTLY.

Number 9. Understand what her reaction will be.

One of the reasons why we don't start a conversation with a girl (in fact, we don't even try to start one) is because we don't know what to expect from her. Most of us didn't, and occasionally saw one of the OTHER GUYS do it.

So, what can happen to a guy who decides to calmly, without nerves, talk to a beautiful girl? In most situations, such a guy will be able to at least GET THE OPPORTUNITY TO TALK, and very rarely a woman will say something rude. And if, nevertheless, it happened, then you will understand that the matter is in HER, and not in YOU.

Number 8. "Curb" your fear

Most guys get shivers in the knees when it comes to dating a certain attractive girl. If you want to "reprogram" your conduct, go to a crowded place and try to put yourself in a situation where you can meet girls.

If you go up and talk to 10, 20, or even 50 women in one day, you will make significant progress. Take a friend with you and decide together how many girls each of you can meet tonight.
For each successful acquaintance, award each other 5 virtual points, and then at the end of the evening you will be able to determine the winner. And then you will realize HOW much easier it is than you thought before.

Number 7: Avoid Thinking About "Negative Feedback"

What do guys do when they see a pretty girl? They can't figure out what to say so original or charming. Or they sort through in memory all the successful compliments. Or they begin to think that she is not alone and too busy to talk or, even worse, that she is not interested in talking to someone like you.

All these thoughts lead to a powerful emotional or physical fear of communication. No need to dwell and hesitate. If you see a beautiful girl, come up and talk. Say something banal to get to know each other. No need to think too hard, turn off your imagination.

Number 6. Stay calm.

It can always happen that you find yourself in one UNSUCCESSFUL and inappropriate place with a beautiful girl. In most of these situations, you start to feel uncomfortable, act unnatural and stupid, seek her favor with a bunch of banal compliments (instead of one), try to do something for her, fawn, etc.

First of all, you need to consciously avoid such mistakes. With a little practice, you'll figure out how to NATURALLY avoid these situations.

Number 5. Don't Seek Her Approval

One of the most common and deadly mistakes men make when talking to women is seeking her approval. Think of it as a continuum of good and bad: you want her approval, you really want her approval, you like her approval, so what.

You are very little interested in what she thinks of you, so you absolutely do not care if she approves of you or not. Understand where you are right now on this continuum, and start improving that with each subsequent interaction with a girl. Your improvement in this area will greatly improve your ability to communicate with beautiful girls.

Number 4. Try different ways of dating

In my life I have seen many different approaches and types of dating: energetic, serious, spontaneous, interested, etc. Work out a way that works for you, but don't forget to be flexible and try other styles. There is nothing wrong with trying something different, experimenting, and maybe you can improve the result.

Remember three different ways of dating and try, without delay, try them on three different girls. This simple exercise works wonders, you will understand which style suits you best.

Number 3. Ask her opinion

Four or five years ago, in a club, I remembered another interesting way to meet women. Decided to act like they were just in the same place with me.

Therefore, I began to start a conversation, being interested in their opinion on any issue (especially on those issues that women find interesting, like the latest rumors from the life of celebrities). I left the club with five phone numbers of some of the most beautiful girls I have ever met. Asking for her opinion is a very small risk, and one of the easiest ways to start a conversation.

Number 2. Remember, familiarity gives YOU a significant advantage.

The good news is that you can ALWAYS rewire yourself and learn a new way of dating an incredibly beautiful girl, then enjoy success and realize your advantages.

Remember: most men NEVER try to overcome their fear of dating a gorgeous girl, so when YOU decide to do this, you put yourself head and shoulders above them. When you need motivation to start a conversation, remember this incredible benefit and just let it happen.

Number 1. Constantly Strive for Excellence

Acquaintance with beautiful women is one of the main skills of a player (pick-up artist). It will allow you to open any doors and provide enough opportunities to practice your way of dating, not to mention the fact that you will have a lot of "fun" with different girls.

However, overnight you will not change that. If you really want to be successful at this, constantly strive to become a dating pro. Explore all the best ideas and ways, practice and never stop learning.

P.S.
Tips: Be yourself...
Complete nonsense from and for narrow-minded people.
Only by playing with a smarter opponent can you grow wiser, and you can improve your skills in something, you can only observe and learn from the experience of others.
It's just that everything is good in moderation, this rule works without exceptions.